How to Flirt with a Guy at Work

How to Flirt with a Guy at Work

The world is filled with strikingly good-looking men. Believe me, it is a fact. Even in school or at work, they are there. But the big problem is how could you get their attention? Do not cry, do not pout. Here are some easy yet classic ways to bag the interest of the guys at work, may it be the cute office mate from the next table or even the big boss.

  • Do unto others as they do unto you. Picture this situation: Your gorgeous office mate is staring his stunningly beautiful eyes and flashing his 1000 mega watt smile at you. What would you do next? Hide behind your great pile of paperwork and pretend you haven’t seen anything? WRONG! That is the lamest idea ever. In these kinds of situations, you do not run and hide. You return the gesture of course. Always remember the golden rule. If he smiles at you, smile back at him. Guys always like girls who return their gesture and show them that their simple gesticulation has been appreciated.
  • Find a common ground. This is the shortest shortcut towards opening up a conversation with him. Conduct a little research and find out if the two of you have a common interest that both of you could relate to. Guys always love having someone to talk with about what happened to last night’s basketball game or someone who can play their favorite video game with them. However, you girls should not fake it. Faking interest on the things that interest him could be a big problem in the future. Trust me, you wouldn’t want to destroy that budding romance before it even starts to bud, would you?
  • Do the coffee trick. Who, in their right ages, doesn’t like coffee? You could take advantage of this technique. Even heroines in movies do it. When you bump into that handsome co-worker that you have been crushing on for months now, may it be intentional or accidental, you could always say sorry and offer him a cup of coffee. That trick always works in the office. Inviting him for coffee at the local cafe can lead to a lot of possibilities. It can even lead to him asking you out on a date. Who knows, right?
  • Don’t be greedy in giving out compliments. Guys are suckers for great compliments. They like being complimented so much even if it is not usually evident in their faces. Practice those good words and put them into good use. The next time you see him at the office, praise his tie and tell him that he looks good. He will surely appreciate it. And maybe, he will consider on taking you out for dinner or the movies.
  • Make yourself partially unavailable. When he does ask you out, what is the right thing to do? Of course, it is a temptation to instantly say yes but you’ve got to play hard to get. You’ve got to give him the signal that you are single but unavailable, even if it is not entirely true. That way, he will find you as a challenge. However, you must not be THAT hard to get. Try to play things cool, but not too relaxed.


Of course, the results of these tips still depend upon the situation, persons involved and the right timing. However, it wouldn’t hurt to try, would it?